There are seasons when the world feels unbearably loud.
Not just noisy — loud.
The headlines.
The opinions.
The tragedies.
The “urgent” notifications.
The expectations.
The pressure to respond to everything.
The pressure to have a take on everything.
The pressure to be everything.
And if you’re someone like me — someone who feels deeply, notices patterns, reads micro-expressions, tracks tone shifts, absorbs energy in a room before a word is spoken — it can feel overwhelming fast.
The world doesn’t just sound loud.
It lands loud.
If You’re Feeling This Too…
Maybe you’ve noticed:
- You’re more irritable than usual.
- You’re exhausted but wired.
- You’re clenching your jaw without realizing it.
- You want to help everyone but also hide from everyone.
- You feel responsible for problems you didn’t create.
You’re not broken.
You’re likely overloaded.
There’s a difference.
Some of Us Were Built With Wide Receivers
Some of us were wired with very sensitive antennae.
We notice injustice.
We notice tension.
We notice suffering.
We notice subtle changes in people we love.
We notice when something feels “off.”
That awareness is a strength.
But when the volume gets turned up everywhere at once, that same strength can feel like a liability.
It’s not.
It just needs boundaries.
You Are Allowed to Turn the Volume Down
You are allowed to:
- Mute the news.
- Step away from comment sections.
- Not argue your point.
- Not consume every update.
- Not solve the entire world before dinner.
- Protect your nervous system like it matters.
Because it does.
Your nervous system is not selfish.
It is sacred.
Loud Seasons Require Gentle Practices
When everything feels amplified, I come back to small, grounding anchors:
- Warm coffee in both hands.
- Protein oats that taste the same every morning.
- A walk outside.
- Lifting something heavy to remind my body I am strong.
- One honest conversation instead of ten performative ones.
- Choosing quiet over chaos.
Consistency is not boring.
It is stabilizing.
Progress is made in the ordinary.
In the small choices.
Even the choice to pause.
You Don’t Have to Be the Strong One All the Time
If you are the helper…
The advocate…
The one people lean on…
The one who holds space for others…
You are allowed to lean too.
You are allowed to say:
“This is a lot.”
“I’m overstimulated.”
“I need quiet.”
“I can’t carry this right now.”
Strength is not the absence of overwhelm.
It’s knowing when to regulate instead of react.
If This Is You Today
Take a breath with me.
Unclench your jaw.
Drop your shoulders.
Slow your exhale.
You don’t have to fix the world tonight.
You don’t have to consume everything to prove you care.
You can be compassionate without being consumed.
You can be aware without being overwhelmed.
You can be strong and still need softness.
The world may be loud right now.
But you don’t have to match its volume.
Lower yours.
Protect your peace.
And remember:
Sensitivity is not weakness.
It is information.
Handle it gently.
☀️ Sunshine Says
You don’t have to match the world’s volume to prove you care.
Protect your peace like it’s part of your purpose — because it is.
With steadiness,



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